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Men also have a secondary role to play. In order to do the above, you have to retain the female and not have her wandering off elsewhere. You could try to do this by force but if you’re off with the guys hunting, well, you cannot be in two places at once. So you learn to amuse her, earn her respect, keep her well provided for and well looked after. Basically, you try to keep her happy and content back at your cave. Sound familiar yet? Yes, there are men who just run about procreating without regard to the welfare of the women involved or the resultant children but if you consider it, it becomes ludicrous. Anything could be happening to his children. If his children do not survive to have healthy children of their own, he’s been ineffective and inefficient, regardless of how much fun it might have been.At least, that’s the theory in evolutionary terms. How does that play out in today’s world?

Communication
Given that men generally exhibit higher levels of jealousy, possessiveness, competitiveness, and aggression, how do women cope? Usually, women are taught, in our society, to handle men through a mixture of denial and appeasement. We deny them what they want so they will respect us and appease them by trying to be tactful – to let them down easy, as the expression goes, or we give in to their demands. We appease them so they will not give way to their emotions through frustration. Women fear that if men give way to their emotions, we will get
hurt.