Any Force during an Argument
An abuser may physically restrain you from leaving the room, lash out at you with his/her hand or another object, pin you against a wall or shout ‘right in your face’. Basically any form of force used during an argument can be a sign that actual violence is a strong possibility.

Regardless of which side of this equation you are on – get immediate help NOW! There is no future in this kind of relationship. You will not change either him or yourself. So it is best just to leave. Get out of there and file a police report. Any sign of gentleness on you part will only be seen as ‘weakness’ by him and he will continue to press, berate and badger you into coming back to him for more abuse. Just be done with him. If you are the abuser – get help. There is something seriously wrong with you that only a
medical professional can help you solve.

There are women who do dreadful things because they think they’ll hold onto their man by doing them. They need professional medical help as well. Women
should not get off ’scot-free’ but ’sisterhood’ means looking after one another and helping where we can.

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