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The Cult of Virginity
Nothing has ruined more relationships than this idea of virginity having value. There was a reason for this before reliable birth control. But even then, the main idea behind it was repugnant. The cult of virginity was founded on the belief that once a woman had sex with a man she was ‘tainted’ and had no further value. None. Not even as a human being with a brain and whatever talent she may possess. Girls were subjected to wedding nights that resembled rapes and were considered sluts if they showed the least desire or enjoyment even within marriage.

Ignorance of your most basic human drive is not a ‘gift’ and there’s nothing ‘precious’ about virginity. Without some experience with men, and with yourself, your chances of selecting the most suitable husband are slender. Consider that the number one complaint of married men after 20 years with the same woman is lack of sex. Why is that? It is because women have the idea that being sexually experienced, enjoying sex and desiring masculine attention makes them a worthless slut. They pretend before marriage and then give it all up once they’ve had their children if they even have children.

The truth is that women have the same desires as men do. If she manages it properly, she can have a satisfying, safe, and entirely electrifyingly enjoyable sex life before, during, and after marriage – for her entire life. A sexually self-aware woman has the
capacity to ‘out-gun’ any six men you’d care to name. Focus that kind of attention upon a man and he’d be more than just merely delighted. Show him what you like, tell him what you like, participate fully, reciprocate, initiate sex, take control – have fun with this! How can you do all that if you have no idea what you like and what you’re doing?