However, there is nothing more pathetic than a woman chasing after or mooning over a man who is not interested in her or doesn’t want her. If he doesn’t ’step up’ then it is time for you to ’step off’ that is, to move on and find another.
The cult of virginity was founded on the belief that once a woman had sex with a man she was ‘tainted’ and had no further value. None. Not even as a human being with a brain and whatever talent she may possess.
Within a relationship, of any kind, fair is fair and effective communication is key. This means if you want him to do this, you had better be prepared to do that.
We shall begin with flirting or ‘how to hold onto man while keeping him at arm’s length’. The rule here is do not touch him. If you touch him, even lightly on his hand, he’ll take that as sexual interest in him and as permission to touch you.
The abusive person may break your treasured object, beat his/her fists on the table or chair or throw something at or past you. Breaking your things is often used as a punishment for some imagined misdeed on your part.
